Comments on: My Husband Is Still a Sex Addict http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/ Tue, 10 Jan 2012 01:04:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: The Second Road Family » It’s Not About Sex http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-6142 The Second Road Family » It’s Not About Sex Thu, 25 Jun 2009 06:18:11 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-6142 [...] in my husband’s most major relapse since starting recovery, it wasn’t the details of his acting out that hurt me (I wasn’t [...] [...] in my husband’s most major relapse since starting recovery, it wasn’t the details of his acting out that hurt me (I wasn’t [...]

]]> By: mamampj http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-4820 mamampj Thu, 18 Dec 2008 16:10:58 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-4820 Cat, that's one of the things that always amazes me: how similarly addiction plays out regardless of the substance or behavior involved. Every story is different, but every story is so much the same. Cat, that's one of the things that always amazes me: how similarly addiction plays out regardless of the substance or behavior involved. Every story is different, but every story is so much the same.

]]> By: Cat http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-4815 Cat Wed, 17 Dec 2008 19:27:14 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-4815 Wow - How did I go so long without ever seeing this post? What you describe reads so like my husband's addiction, to alcohol. Wanting to be first on his list, him betraying your trust, the night you had cause to trust him most. This was painful to read, but I kept nodding my head I get this I know this I understand. Wow - How did I go so long without ever seeing this post?

What you describe reads so like my husband's addiction, to alcohol. Wanting to be first on his list, him betraying your trust, the night you had cause to trust him most.

This was painful to read, but I kept nodding my head I get this I know this I understand.

]]> By: Misery Marketing http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-4154 Misery Marketing Fri, 19 Sep 2008 19:25:00 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-4154 Holy crap how did I miss this all week. A whole post by the great and powerful MPJ spawned my little ole me. I am truly the shit. Now to go read my post. It will probably be the best post youve ever done. Holy crap how did I miss this all week. A whole post by the great and powerful MPJ spawned my little ole me. I am truly the shit. Now to go read my post. It will probably be the best post youve ever done.

]]> By: Mrs. Jane Doe http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-4093 Mrs. Jane Doe Mon, 15 Sep 2008 14:04:00 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-4093 You are a strong woman! I admire you in this situation. I can't imagine the pain and heartache the entire events have brought into your life, and yet you still stay strong. You write with such power and give others hope. You are a strong woman! I admire you in this situation. I can't imagine the pain and heartache the entire events have brought into your life, and yet you still stay strong. You write with such power and give others hope.

]]> By: FI0NA http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-4084 FI0NA Mon, 15 Sep 2008 03:29:00 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-4084 Mary. It was not that long ago, was it? We have a similar situation at the moment where my SA partner works late one night a week teaching at a community college. I put my son to bed, and kiss him when he gets home late. When he last acted out, that I know of this is the exact alibi he used (via omission) HE WAS AT WORK. Meanwhile using my car to go and visit an ex for sex. Judging by my recent snooping evidence this could be happening again, where he suggests dinner with one of them - this could accidentally occur when snowed under with work.... My tolerance is much lower than yours. Mary. It was not that long ago, was it? We have a similar situation at the moment where my SA partner works late one night a week teaching at a community college. I put my son to bed, and kiss him when he gets home late. When he last acted out, that I know of this is the exact alibi he used (via omission) HE WAS AT WORK. Meanwhile using my car to go and visit an ex for sex. Judging by my recent snooping evidence this could be happening again, where he suggests dinner with one of them - this could accidentally occur when snowed under with work.... My tolerance is much lower than yours.

]]> By: Laura http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-4082 Laura Mon, 15 Sep 2008 00:50:00 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-4082 Miss M, you are honest and courageous to share your deepest heart with us all. Perhaps this is a time..that there was only one set of footprints. <br/><br/>God is faithful to us as we are faithful to Him with all things. <br/><br/>Major Hugs..and prayers to manage what we don't always understand. Miss M, you are honest and courageous to share your deepest heart with us all. Perhaps this is a time..that there was only one set of footprints.

God is faithful to us as we are faithful to Him with all things.

Major Hugs..and prayers to manage what we don't always understand.

]]> By: Guilty Secret http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-4077 Guilty Secret Sun, 14 Sep 2008 19:56:00 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-4077 What an amazing post and a fascinating discussion that ensued. I can't wait to read your response post. What an amazing post and a fascinating discussion that ensued. I can't wait to read your response post.

]]> By: apathetic bliss http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-4075 apathetic bliss Sun, 14 Sep 2008 17:56:00 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-4075 This was an extremely moving post and you are a remarkable woman. I am not sure I would have the strength or humility you show. <br/><br/>BTW thanx for not making me jump over to the second road to read your post. I am lazy and like to stay all cozy in one place. :) This was an extremely moving post and you are a remarkable woman. I am not sure I would have the strength or humility you show.

BTW thanx for not making me jump over to the second road to read your post. I am lazy and like to stay all cozy in one place. :)

]]> By: thegentlepath http://aroomofmamasown.com/2008/09/my-husband-is-still-a-sex-addict/comment-page-1/#comment-4074 thegentlepath Sun, 14 Sep 2008 14:56:00 +0000 http://aroomofmamasown.com/wordpress/?p=610#comment-4074 Sometimes I think that the focus on meetings can support the addict's selfishness and fear.<br/><br/>I really worry about that. Am I being selfish or safe? Am I supporting my recovery or my fear? I want to quit going to meetings sometimes, but I'm afraid of myself. Sometimes I think that the focus on meetings can support the addict's selfishness and fear.

I really worry about that. Am I being selfish or safe? Am I supporting my recovery or my fear? I want to quit going to meetings sometimes, but I'm afraid of myself.

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