Image credit: Photo by limonada on Flickr Licensed under Creative Commons A few years ago, I was visiting my friend Ellie and was a guest in her house for the first time in my life. I had just taken a shower and was standing in her bathroom, a wet towel in my hand, at a [...]
Posts from ‘July, 2009’
I Miss You, Blog
Image credit: Photo by doug88888 on Flickr Licensed under Creative Commons Summers are hard. Enjoyable, yes, but also draining. My kids like routine and predictability, and frankly, so do I. In the summer, there can be routines, but they're different from the rest of the year, and they change more frequently. The whole world seems [...]
Codependent Daydreams of Lee Harvey Oswald
Somewhere, in my recent adventures around the Internet, I came across that iconic image of Lee Harvey Oswald, Kennedy's assassin (well, unless you believe in conspiracy theories), being assassinated himself. Kennedy was not assassinated in my lifetime, so the first time I saw Oswald's image was in an encyclopedia (anyone remember those?). I may have [...]
Conspiracy Theories
Image credit: Photo by CowGummy on Flickr Licensed under Creative Commons It started off innocently enough years ago. She would forward me the usual stories warning me that I should watch out for snakes in McDonald's ball pits or people out to steal my kidneys or serial killers who would lure me out of the [...]
Doesn’t Work Well with Others
Image credit: Photo by nickwheeleroz on Flickr Licensed under Creative Commons A big red C. There it was, heartbreakingly plastered on the front of the report I had worked for weeks on. I had painstakingly drawn a wombat on the special mottled pastel paper, neatly stenciled the title ("All About Wombats"), and enclosed it, along [...]
Summer Night Haiku
Beneath the warm stars another long summer day has drifted to sleep.
Summer Solitude
Image credit: Photo by photo71 on Flickr Licensed under Creative Commons I'm not one to keep busy during the summer, at least not in the sense of running the kids from place to place, activity to activity. Yet, not being busy — whether inside inside the house playing board games or (more often) just keeping [...]
What Autism Is Supposed to Look Like
Image credit: Photo by cproppe on Flickr Licensed under Creative Commons We took the kids to a pool party at the home of some friends of mine recently. The hosts, as well as several guests, moved a fair drive away from us several years ago, and several more guests were visiting from out of town. [...]
Spiritual Glasses
Image credit: Photo by phr3qu3ncy on Flickr Licensed under Creative Commons Before I knew about my husband's sex addiction or recognized my own codependency, I had lots of explanations for how things worked in my life. I believed that if people were passionately in love, had a satisfying sex life, like and respected each other [...]
The Trappings of Success
Image credit: Art by Rob Sheridan on Flickr Licensed under Creative Commons Years ago, before I knew about my husband's sex addiction, one of the things that drew me to him, that I really liked and respected about him, was how he seemed to have broken away from the pattern of addiction and dysfunction in [...]
