Posts under ‘body image’

Scary

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I rashly went out Halloween costume shopping a few days ago. I'm not sure what I was thinking. Well, I know I needed to pick up a costume for my daughter — Yes, a few days shy of Halloween. I'm totally on top of [...]

Lingerie, Sex Toys and Me?

Warning: this post, and the site I link to, may be triggering to sex addicts.

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A few weeks ago, I got an e-mail from a woman named Paula Saardchit. She told me she'd found my blog while doing research for an article she was writing on sex [...]

Finding Beautiful

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When Mark and I were at the very beginning of our relationship, moving from a flirtatious friendship into love, he signed off some early little love note "a thousand ships for my beautiful." Now who was I to resist a suave Helen of Troy reference to [...]

Wearing Away the Stone

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As I was brushing my hair recently, I noticed a few strands of gray. My mother's hair seemed to turn white nearly overnight in her late forties. She said it was the grief of losing two close family members within less than a year that [...]

Body Image Haikus

I've seen my body
a mask I show to the world,
not my own true face.
I've seen my body
a lure to gain attention,
love and approval.
I've seen my body
a useless shell for my mind,
worthy of neglect.
I've rushed in eager
to devour my soft heart
and cast off the rind.
An old friend whispers:
You can tend the inside by
tending the outside.
Yoga teaches [...]

Tofu or Not Tofu Haiku

Thanks to everyonefor the haiku suggestionsyou gave yesterday.
Scrumptious bites tempt me.Shall I gorge on them all orsavor them slowly?
I'll pick one today.The rest I'll save and savoras the weeks go on.
The Maven, newlyvegetarian, suggestsa tofu haiku.
(Maven delights me.If you haven't read her blog,your life is empty.)
Sickly, glowing pale,Crumbling, spongy firm tofu.My post-partum thighs.

Learning to Love my Body Again

Imagine (and for those of you that have been through it, this isn’t a stretch) that you are a healthy, moderate drinker in a relationship with someone you come to realize, through great pain and damage, is an alcoholic. After having your life torn apart by the consequences of your partner’s drinking, you might (among [...]