Anne Lamott (come on, woman, set up a Google alert on your name and come find me already, for crying out loud) is one of my favorite writers. Recently, I have been reading Grace (Eventually) in stolen moments, usually in the bathroom. The kids are not generally deterred by a closed bathroom door, but they [...]
Posts under ‘duality’
The Ghost Image
While this post doesn't contain any sexually explicit content, I do describe my feelings the first time my husband and I made love, which may be triggering to some addicts. Image credit: Photo byTheremina on FlickrLicensed under Creative Commons This morning when I woke up, my husband was getting dressed. I leaned on one elbow [...]
Patterns
Image credit: Art by chwalker01 on Flickr Licensed under Creative Commons When I started attending 12 Step meetings to cope with my husband's sex addiction, I met many women who had been married multiple times, each time to an addict. One husband may have been an alcoholic, one might have been a drug addict, and [...]
Quantum Reality Recovery Haikus
In quantum physicstwo states both are true at once,so in my marriage. My husband, off ata sex addict 12 step ora date. Whatever. Is that thing a vaseor two human faces orthe look of marriage?
